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About Xerces
My name is Xerces (Air-sis), and I believe that deep within each of us lies a well of emotional wisdom, patiently waiting for us to come home to it. For many years, I walked a path where I kept my emotions just out of reach, thinking that being “strong” meant I had to push through without truly feeling. I learned to intellectualize my emotions, to perform, and to stay busy. And yet, beneath the surface, I knew that I was disconnected from the very thing that could bring me peace—my heart.
It was only when I stepped into the role of a mother, and my heart called me to nurture in ways I had never known, that I began to understand the depth of the healing journey that awaited me.
The Wound We Inherit
Like so many women, I inherited what I’ve come to know as the Mother Wound—a deep, invisible thread that connects generations, shaping how we see ourselves, how we love, and how we live. It was through this wound that I learned to keep parts of myself hidden, to intellectualize my feelings, and to seek approval through doing instead of being.
But motherhood is a mirror. It asks us to be whole, to nurture not just others, but ourselves. And in that reflection, I saw that there was more for me to heal. The emotions I had tucked away needed to be felt, trusted, and honored. I could no longer carry the weight of old wounds and expect to thrive. My healing was not just for me—it was for my family, and for the generations yet to come.
The Path of Emotional Wisdom
The path to emotional wisdom is not one we walk overnight, nor is it one we walk alone. For me, it began when I realized that traditional methods of healing, while helpful, were not reaching the depths of my soul. I needed something more—a way to reconnect with my body, to feel the emotions I had long suppressed, and to understand them as the powerful guides they are.
This journey taught me that healing isn’t about perfection or always having the right answers. It’s about learning to trust yourself, to embrace vulnerability, and to allow the fullness of your emotional experience to shape you. I learned to release the fear that my emotions would overwhelm me, and instead, I began to see them as the doorway to my deepest strength.
A Call to Heal the Legacy of Mothers
It became clear to me that this wasn’t just my journey—it was the journey of many women. Women who had carried the burden of the Mother Wound, often without even knowing it. Women who had been taught to silence their emotions, to push through, and to perform. But the truth is, we cannot heal what we do not feel.
And so, I began my work—guiding mothers and wives through the very journey I had walked. I created the *Emotional Embodiment Healing Journey* to offer a space for women to come home to themselves, to heal the wounds of the past, and to create a new emotional legacy for the future.
Guiding You Back to Your Emotional Wisdom
Today, my mission is simple: to help you reconnect with the emotional wisdom that has always been within you. The journey we take together is one of deep healing, gentle self-discovery, and lasting transformation.
Through this work, you will:
- Uncover the emotional blindspots that have shaped your life, especially through the Mother Wound.
- Learn to embrace vulnerability in your relationships, opening yourself to deeper connection and trust.
- Reconnect with your body, allowing emotions to be felt, processed, and released.
- Strengthen your emotional authority, guiding your family from a place of peace and trust.
- Create a legacy of emotional health, resilience, and wisdom that will ripple through generations.
I have walked this path, and I offer you my hand to walk alongside you. It’s time to stop carrying the emotional burdens of the past. You have the power to heal, to create change, and to step into the fullness of your emotional being.
Are You Ready to Begin?
If these words resonate with the longing in your heart, and if you are ready to step into your emotional power, I invite you to take the first step.
Together, we will create a space where you can heal, grow, and reclaim your emotional wisdom. Book a Call and let’s begin the journey.